Question: If you have a boyfriend but your friends do not really like him. Or if your boyfriend do not really like your friends. What would you do?

Answer: Break either side of the relationship? Of course not! Seriously i do not know what to do. It is like in a situation whereby a sandwich, one side is a slice of ham and the other side is a slice of cheese, if one of the fillings gone it won't be perfect. Or take your hand as an example. Both sides are your flesh. In fact it is hard to handle this kind of situation.

Humans are just so interesting. One may not see the good view of another one but the bad view and vice versa. Therefore, they start bad-mouthing, backstabbing or even have the jealousy feeling on each other. Heard some news from my friends and didn't know that behind my boyfriend's back, he is facing some unseen conflicts.

Basically, i know my boyfriend character pretty well. In fact those who are close with him should know him well! He is those type of person who doesn't know how to put good words in his mouth. I admit that at times the way he talks may sound sarcastic but it does not have thorns in it. Eventually, it would lead to many misunderstandings.
Rumours spreading that he is using his In-Charge authority to press his staffs down, the way he talks or handles some working stuffs is wrong and worst of all, a bastard/bitch claims that he/she should be the one that deserves the promotion.

First two listed above i can admit that partly it is my boyfriend's fault.
I ever saw it with my own eyes that when comes to work topics, he would eventually mention his In-Charge position out. Of course to me, i know that he is saying in a joking manner yet at the same time i feel that he is trying to show off about his position. But to others, they won't be able to see the joking side of his, in fact, the angle that they saw was my boyfriend is just being proud.
Another thing is that sometimes the way he handles with his staffs or his decisions making may not come to an agreement among his colleagues, please bear with it. I believe he has his own reason why these things should or should not be performed in these way. He ought to see how's the shop current situations' like before agreeing to the other party's request. Again it may lead to some disagreement. That is because the other party's mindset is not the same as him.

As for the last listed above, i have to say that it is not a matter of fair or unfair issue. If he/she is really capable, no matter how long he/she has worked for the company, be it, a week, a month or a year, one's performance cannot be hide.
So what he/she works longer or i should say join the company earlier than my boyfriend and he/she SHOULD be the one getting the promotion. Hey! Come on lah. I mean if he/she really has the abilities and capabilities, the head authorities would know! Also, it was not the previous In-Charge who gives my boyfriend a chance and promotes him, but the one who holds the highest position did it. No point bad-mouthing around.
Yes, my boyfriend is new to retail line and i can see that he is trying to do his best in this line. From the moment he started working, he never stops himself from working OT, he always try to get things done quickly and efficiently, he never ever complain to me that he is stressed. Ever quarrelled with him due to these because i felt neglected. As i had said he never works at retail line before so sometimes people might think that he isn't good enough. One thing i can assure is when comes to work, he can be very serious but after work, he's no longer the one you people faced at work.

So much of paragraphs are just stating the feelings of my boyfriend. I know it is not easy to be a In-Charge. As for me, i am really like a sandwich. Upcoming problems to face will be one group of gathering. Definitely i do not want to see my friends putting a mask in front of them to meet my boyfriend and i. On the other hand, they would also feel weird coming to the gathering but just because i am their friend and he is my boyfriend, they simply give some face and attend. This is what i do not wish to see.

Of course, due to this, i quarrelled with him. I'm not those type of person that would side my boyfriend or side my friends. I know that for this situation, my boyfriend has his wrong doings. On the other hand, i really hope that colleagues of him could have some understandings.
I do not want my friends to use another eye to look upon my boyfriend. I mind it alot!
Perhaps i fail to be a good girlfriend.

Finding a solution to this situation. What i thought of is to talk some sense to my boyfriend. I want him to change his talking attitude first and ignore whatever rumours spreading about him. Because i believe that one has eyes to see other people changes.
Again our talks turned out to be quarrels. Anyway, i managed to let him know my opinions and understand the situation of his. I believe he will change but it takes time. No one can successfully change a person's characters over a night.

To my friends out there, pardon for everything that happens. Also got to thank for all your understandings.

Alarm rang and i woke up. After i got prepared and went to bi's house. His off day again and we're going to town. Waited for him to get ready and when the rain got smaller, we went out.
Passed by Eastpoint and saw Siew Mei and Jasmine. We stood there and chatted for quite some time.

Bi and i cabbed down to Shaw House to dine at Pepper Lunch. Our first time dining there and we looked so noob! At first we were wondering has the food cooked or not. HAHAS. :D There were a couple beside us kept looking at us. They acted as if they were one of those high class people. Guess they were trying to show us how to cook. So clever go be a cook ah. HAHAS. :D



LOVES!



Jesslyn take 1.



Hubby take 1.



Jesslyn take 2.



Jesslyn take 3.



Pepper Lunch.



Hubby take 2.



Teriyaki Chicken Pepper Rice.



Chicken Pepper Rice.



Jesslyn take 4.



Hubby take 3.

Shopping at Far East Plaza. Saw a halter top at Blossom. I want to buy that! ARGHS! Waiting for my pay. While shopping, bi and i felt like shitting. Our stomach were so damn uncomfortable. Both of us went to the washroom to SHIT. HAHAS. :D
Bi said we cabbed down to town to try out the food yet it didn't last us for an hour and we SHIT. LOLS! A waste of money! Haish.

Continue to walk around Orchard and we came across Swensens. Bi said he felt like eating ice cream. Know what? We joined the queue outside Swensens. LOLS. After shitting our stomach got space for other food. HAHAS. :D



Jesslyn take 5.



Hubby take 4.



Regular Earthquake.



LOVES!

Initially we planned to catch a night movie at Vivo City but since Swee Bin got 跳神 at 玄德壇 so we decided to take care of him. From Bugis we took bus to Geylang. Upon reaching then realised 玄德壇 is located there. HAHAS. Not long later, Swee Bin and Ah Dan came. So surprised to see Christina there too. HAHAS! Because i thought Swee Bin wouldn't bring her to this kind of places. Together we took care of him.
I rather come to Geylang is because Swee Bin 跳南海善才爷 instead of 齐天大圣. HAHAS. :D Never in my life seen him 跳小孩子神 before. His boss is SO CUTE! AH HAAS! Slightly mature than bi's boss. :D

OH YA!! One thing that surprises me damn lots is 南海善才爷 told Christina and i that he and bi's boss, 善才爷 saw the pacifiers necklaces that we made for them. OMG! God 就是 god.
Starting i thought i heard wrongly and i asked 南海善才爷 again and he told me that he brought 善才爷 along during that day to see Christina and i make the necklace. He told us the necklace very 'swee', meaning nice. HAHAS. :D Luckily they like it. (:
Can't wait for 四月初八 to give bi's boss the necklace. HAHAS. :)

Pictures taken during 玄德壇's 拜天公 ceremony are with Christina. You guys can go to her blog to have a look when she uploads them. :)

15 Mar. Went to 柒阴坛's yew keng. By right Swee Bin was the one 跳神 but he kanna deployment so bi replaced him. All the way i was taking care of bi's boss, 善才爷. HE WAS SO SO SO CUTE. HAHAS. :D So fun taking care of him. We visited many temples from Tampines, Ubi, Changi Road, Hougang and Sengkang. Whole day i spent at was yew keng. Can't imagine i did not go for toilet break, lunch + dinner break and even smoking break. HAHAS. :D



Sunny do all the make up for bi.






HAHAS!



Waiting for 善才爷 & 莲花三太子爷 to come.



Waiting...



Coming...



Welcome. LOLS! :D















'Tiong Tua.'



Can you spot me? HAHAS. :D









Praying process.









Praying process.



The lorries we sat to travel from one place to another.



Lights on lorry.

Last journey of the day at Hougang Avenue 3. Saw Swee Bin and Christina crossing the road to approach us. Heard from them that Swee Bin felt something not right and was worry for bi, so they came down to have a look.



Alan & Swee Bin.






OMG! I love this!! HAHAS. :D

Uncle Kelvin drove us back to 南天宫 after the yew keng. Bi got his 2 feets injured. ARGHS! 2 damn big blisters!



Must be very painful.



Siew Mei, Christina & me.


Next is pictures taken at 南天宫 when Christina and i making the pacifiers necklace.



Materials.






Putting the beads to the string.



Cutting the string.

Found the USB cable inside the box of the camera! So stupid of mi. HAHAS. :D Following will be flooded with pictures!!

BABY GERMAINE IS OUT!









Inside cab after visiting Ah Mei & Germaine.



Siew Mei & me at Ah Mei's ward.

Can go to Christina's blog to see more of Germaine pictures.


Outing with Bi, Wee Keong, Alan and Siew Mei.



*Loves*



*Loves*



Wee Keong's car.



The driver.

Next was dinner at Swensens.









Lovely couple. <3



Lovely couple.



2 Botaks. HAHAS. :D



WAHAHAS XD.

After dinner, Wee Keong drove us back to Tampines to meet up with Swee Bin. Alan and Siew Mei alighted first to do some stuffs and we headed to Swee Bin's house. Waited for him downstairs his block. He took so long to prepare sia.



Hubby & me. :)



Wee Keong, Swee Bin & Hubby.



Look at them. HAHAS. :D



2 men in black & 1 man in yellow.

Siew Mei and i went home first while the four guys went to play billard.